Marriage as a bond has always been cherished by couples. Married couples have always taken marriage as a life long bond and have from ages has been considered as a relation, which is meant to be forever. The forever bond of marriage has its longitivity due to the factors of love, care, trust and understanding. These elements are must to be instilled in the married life to sustain the bond of marriage and to make sure that the husband and wife lead a smooth and a happy married life. But, with the changing times and changing preferences of the people, marriage is no longer based on the factors of trust and care.
The emotions has no role to play in today’s world, what every body seeks for, at the end of the day is profit and growth. Love, sentiments, faith, all seems to be fading away with the people making more use of their brain rather than their hearts. And I would not be wrong in saying that marriages have become more of like a compromise than a bond based on mutual understanding. The couples should understand that if they feed their married life with the four basic elements of marriage, i.e. love, understanding, care and trust, then their married life would be more beautiful and worth living.
The couple needs to make sure that they share a good bonding between each other. The bond shared between them should not only be a show-off or an official tag to show the world that they are together, but their togetherness should actually because they need each other. Their married life should be a reflection of each others care and trust. Times are changing, our mindsets are changing but we should not allow the negative factors affect our mind and change the meaning of marriage and love in our lives.
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