Monday, May 28, 2012

Use Muslim Matrimonial Sites to Search the Perfect Life Partner


The Muslim weddings conducted in a planned and coordinated manner. Muslim matrimonial is basically divided into two steps, which are entering of the bride and groom into an engaged state and the later stage is about getting them married.

Searching a life partner is really a tough task, no matter which community you refer to. In every community, there are people who are looking for their life partner but could not contact one another because of the unavailability to resources that could establish communication between them. Thanks to Internet, the distances have shortened and people are able to contact each other

A number of online matrimonial sites are being introduced that have accomplished this task successfully. These sites provide a good platform for the people who are looking for a soul mate who can interact with each other to can decide for the lifetime. There are even Muslim matrimonial services that are dedicated to Muslim society and respect their conservative thoughts. With the help of these sites, the eligible Muslim candidates who wish to get married can search for their spouse sharing the same interests and likes on these matrimonial.

With most of the websites, registration during signing up is offered free of any kind of charge, which has also encouraged people to explore the site and then get hooked to it. During the initial trial period offered by the sites, the users can look for the specified details of the profile of interest. Afterwards, the money charged by the sites depends on the packages taken by the users. As far as security is concerned, these sites are secure enough to safeguard anyone from spam or any type of security breach. So it is definitely a good idea to go online and search for the best suitable match in Muslim matrimonial.

Author: Rashmi Karan

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Social Customs of Jats


Social Customs of Jats allows widow remarriage and prohibits marriage within same gotras. The Jat Matrimony customs stress on alliances with the Jat community. The matrimony sites in India have separate sections for Jat brides and grooms. 

The Jat Community people originally hail from the Northern Indians states, mostly from Punjab, Haryana, Rajasthan and Uttar Pradesh. They have roots in the Sindh region of Pakistan. During the medieval days, the community members migrated to western Gangetic Plain areas, northeastern Rajputana, and the Delhi territory. Originally, most of the members were engaged in agricultural activities, but they are not shifting to various professions.

Jats, whether poor farmer or a rich landlord, shares equal social status in their community. They elderly person in the society is respected and financial background is not the reason. There social customs are unique and require special mention.

Weddings in the Jat community are having strict rituals and Jat members follow it religiously. Alliances for Jat Matrimony should be from their own community only. It is not accepted in their society to marry a non-Jat. A non-Jat bride is accepted, but this is not encouraged by the community members. However, if a Jat girl marries a boy outside the community, it is a taboo. The parents and the community members in general consider this step a blot of disgrace.

Another common matrimonial necessity is that the bride and groom cannot be of the same gotras. If the couple is of the same gotras, they are considered brother and sister. Jat matrimony customs also does not allow marrying from the same village, even of the girl and boy is of different gotras.

The social customs practiced by the Jat community members have a number of advantages. The Jat matrimonial customs maintains the racial purity. The marriage within the community biologically promotes healthy next generation. It is proven that physical degeneration is prevented in the coming generation. Another good thing about their social custom is that since young boys and girls from the village are considered brother-sister, the community boys give a sanctimonious regards to the girls.

The Jats believe in widow remarriage. Unlike many communities in India, where widow marriage is not allowed, in the Jat social system, it is an obligation. Widow marriage, known as karewa, happens within the first cousin or relatives of the husband. After a year of death of the husband, the widow is allowed to remarry. She can marry first cousins or brothers of the deceased. The boy chosen by the widow have to marry her, as it the societal norm of Jats.

Widows with children do not remarry though. They are financial supported by the nearest relatives of the husband. Young windows, without any child are encouraged to remarry. In the state of emotional lows, they are persuaded to select the boy from their husband’s family.

Most of the Jats still believe in the joint family system. Large families, living, and sharing the same hearth are of importance to them. With the change in professions and finding work away from home, the joint family system is losing out. With modernized outlook, the matrimony sites in India are having profiles of Jats community girls and boys.

Author: Shipra

Monday, May 7, 2012

Beautiful Pearl Accessories Add To the Elegance


Pearls look really great! They have turned into the latest style statement. You can find celebrities wearing different patterns of pearls. Not just around the neck, pearls can adorn dresses, sandals and jewelry of course. I love the light double layers of the pearl strands worn by the brides in Marathi matrimony. Some of them also wear lehenga and sari which have embroidered borders containing small pearls, making their wedding attire extremely beautiful and ultra-feminine. 

Other lovely work can also been seen with sequined bags, sandals, bracelets, hair pins, etc. Hey wait, it’s not only about the brides, there is something for the bridegroom too. The pearl strands really give a royal look to a groom; he can also wear a pearl brooch in natural shades. No matter in what style, Pearls are in!
Apart from natural shades, pearls are also available on soft colours like light pink, cream, etc. black pearls also look good, but for the matrimonial purposes, the use of black is generally prohibited.
 You can choose freshwater pearls for your exquisite jewelry pieces. These pearls have natural shine and luster, and are available in a variety of shapes, sizes and colours. 

Beautiful designs of pearl strands are available in the market, which are also encrusted with diamonds and other precious stones like emerald, ruby. The bright combinations of these stones make a pearl set a worth treasuring.

Indeed, the pearl sets and accessories are feminine. They are simple while being elegant and stylish at the same time. Pearls are never out of fashion; it has been adorning the bride and bridegroom since ages, and will define elegance in the future also. You can wear a single pearl as a stud earring, or can wear a layered strand of chandelier diagonally on your shoulders.

Author: Rashmi