Monday, July 23, 2012

Communicate More to Avoid Marital Issues


Whether you had a love marriage or you found your partner through matrimonial sites, relationship issues mostly happen between husband and wife. Trivial or serious, there are arguments between even the lovey-dovey couples. It is not necessary that only in marriages arranged by parents or relatives, as common in Indian communities, relationships issues crop. There are issues between couples who had love marriages.
In most cases, the majority of relationship problems cropping between husband and wife are due to lack of communication. Once the golden days of dating gets over and after wedding, the couple gets busy with family responsibilities, and they have less time for each other. There are many times when the lack of communication between a husband and wife leads to a rut. Failure of communication between the husband and wife can happen in any community wedding, be it from Oriya Matrimony or any other. Despite the fact that ‘pujas’ are held in Oriya matrimony to bless the couples and avoid any unpleasantness situations, modern times marital relationships require more than ‘pujas’. 

A marital relationship comes up with many issues like sharing of money, taking care of parents and kids and doing household chores. These are some of very common things which may affect a marriage in the long run. Even though they sound very basic at the first, if the couple avoids them and do not communicate about the same with each other, problems are bound to crop up. 

Lack of communication will lead to conflicts when one partner cannot handle the situation. Moreover, marital conflicts between husband and wife can prove bad for the kids and for the relationship. Therefore, it is always advisable to keep some time from your busy schedules and spent quality time with your spouse. Talk to your spouse about everyday happenings. Communicate with your partner even the smallest things involving your relationship and family issues. 

Author: Shipra

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Experience Authentic Indian Food at the Weddings

An Indian wedding symbolizes and embodies many rituals, traditions, festivals and celebrations, besides these, you can see the rituals habits that have been passed from generation to generation at the weddings. It is one of the oldest traditions of Indian culture. The match making in India, or weddings usually consist of several events held for several days, in general, different places. 

Indian weddings are usually filled with music, dance, color, flowers and most importantly the food! The menu of various wedding events is carefully prepared by the families of the couple, after considering the cultural and religious needs and preferences of its guests.

The idea is to choose a caterer that could offer a variety of dishes which you want, within a given budget. The wedding banquet in most Indian weddings includes a wide range of appetizers, followed by drinks, main course and then dessert. Good wedding caterers in India usually offer different cuisines including different dishes. You also have different options on the menu before making a final selection.

One of those is the Gujarati cuisine prepared for a typical Gujarati matrimony. Gujarati cuisine usually consists of pure vegetarian food, which accommodates both religious obligations of both Hindu and Jain. A typical Gujarati food usually does not include ingredients such as garlic or onions, which is an indispensible part of the other Indian cuisines. 
The Gujarati caterers usually serve the authentic Gujarati food in traditional stainless steel thalis, and the curries and other food items are served in small steel bowls that would definitely enhance the appetite. Some of the dishes served at the Gujarati matrimonial are khakhara, fafda, dhokla, khaman, papdi, various types of chats, dal bati, etc.
Other states have also their typical cuisines that are prepared at the time of weddings, which truly reflect the culture of a state.

Author: Rashmi Karan