Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Marriages Should be based on Love Not Caste or Religion

Indian culture is very diverse and houses various castes, communities and religions. It is always preferred in Indian marriages that the couple belongs not only to the same religion but to the same caste and community as well.

The Indian society even after evolving for years has not been able to get rid of caste system especially in wedding affairs. Till today, young couples who belong to different castes and religions find it very difficult to marry each other due to the protests from their families. Inter caste marriages are apparently seen as a blemish for the family and both the girl and the boy are treated as rebels. It is highly questionable how a couple can be united on the basis of their religion and not emotions.

Inter-religious marriages are not very frequent in our country even though it proudly boasts of hundreds of castes and religions. With education and exposure to other cultures of the world, the concept of inter caste marriages is slowly being accepted by people at least in the urban cities.

It is quite amazing to see a country flaunting its variegated cultural outlook but not accepting marriage of two individuals from different religions. One should lay importance to the emotions of the couple and not focus on their religious backgrounds. They are just two beings who wish to spend their lives together irrespective of the caste and religion. Our society needs to realize that a successful marriage is not dependent on these factors but on the aspects of mutual understanding and compatibility.

Inter caste and inter religion marriages in India serve as a beacon light for social equality. It is crucial to break the perils of caste-system as marriage is only dependent on true love and feelings while caste and religion are all secondary issues.

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