Thursday, June 27, 2013

Groom yourself before you become a Groom

There are grooms who shy away like a bride and there are Haryanvi grooms who equally look forward to their marriage and perceive their marriage a lifetime commitment towards their life partner. The following content throws light on the behavior of Haryanvi grooms.

When it comes to wedding or matchmaking, the bride tend to take the entire spotlight from the groom as women seem to be more thrilled for their marriage as compared to men.  A wedding as we all know is a bonding between two people who are willing to share their entire life with each other through thick and thin.  However, in India a wedding means coming together of two families, a bonding of a culture and traditions and bragging how much money they have spent on wedding. If we are discussing about Indian weddings then undoubtedly north Indian weddings grabs the number one position as they are one of the most lavish weddings in the country.

Haryanavi Groom
Haryanvi Groom
Marriages in states like Punjab, Haryana and Delhi has elevated the level of marriages. . There are certain pre and post wedding rituals which makes the concept of marriage more interesting. Haryanvi wedding ceremony is no different. The list of rituals in a Hindu wedding is endless. Rituals from “Haldi” of groom and “Vaara Satkaarah” to the big day celebrations, Haryanvi grooms make sure they are dressed at their best. The wedding outfit is something which plays an integral part in a wedding. Haryanvi grooms opt for a traditional outfit such as “sherwani” which gives a royal look while some go for “achkan” or “kurta pyjama”.

Haryanvi grooms are believed to take key responsibilities for their big day. They eagerly participate and prepare themselves in the activities and formalities with an intention to shine at their marriage. Haryanvi grooms eagerly buy wedding outfit, wedding rings and gifts for the bride’s family and i.e. what every groom should do prior to tying the knot.


Author:
Ashish Kumar 

Friday, June 14, 2013

Cards – A Special Way of Conveying Love

The best part about wedding anniversaries is the romance and the presents. But how many of us know how to make a memorable day of the given occasion. There is no doubt that all couples wish to exchange loving words and gifts on this special day. However, not many people know how to make it unforgettable. Greeting cards are the best way to let your spouse know how you feel. Here are some innovative ideas that you can use on your anniversary without burning a hole in your pocket.

The Tradition of Giving Cards


Even in the age of the internet where you have e-cards and e-mail, the value of self-written words is the highest. A card that you have made all by yourself or maybe even one bought from the market but having your hand-written written words is priceless. Personalized gifts are always a beautiful way of saying that you care. A card is an economical yet interesting love declaration, whether you present it individually or add-on more gifts to complement it.

Picking the Right Card

Choosing the ideal card from the cards shop is not a herculean task as such outlets generally have them displayed methodically according to occasions. All you need to do is go to the anniversary section and pick the one that best suits your feelings and mood. You can select from a range of mushy, romantic, funny, naughty or even sentimental cards. There are options where the cards even give out music or different kind of sounds.

Personalizing the Card

There are always interesting things couples have to say to each other. It is easier to write things down, rather than saying them verbally. Cards are the best way to express yourself. You can pleasantly surprise your spouse by re-writing your wedding vows in the card. Or, you can pen down love poems that have a strikingly close resemblance to your love journey – the poems can be inspired, copied or self-composed. You may also tell your spouse their good qualities, memorable experiences and things that you adore about them, such as how they impressed you during your courtship period. Other than that, you can even leave some sweet notes in the card and wait to see their reaction.


Wedding and anniversary cards can always be supplemented by a bouquet of flowers for an added effect.