Girls Resist Early Age Matrimony to Become Self-Reliant

Marriage in India is the most celebrated relation but brings many responsibilities with it. Only a responsible and well educated girl can shoulder the obligations that come along with the matrimony. And girls across the country seem to have understood the importance of education and of becoming self-dependent as they now opt for further studies than an early marriage.

The phenomenon of child marriage is quite prevalent in India even today with several areas and communities getting their children married before the actual eligible age. The rapid urbanization and globalization could reach only cities while towns and villages remained as ignorant as always. Parents kept violating human rights by marrying their children at an early age due to acute poverty and illiteracy. But, it seems that girls have now become aware of the hazards of marrying early and have decided to go against the tide. They now aim at achieving self reliance before dedicating themselves to the life filled with domestic responsibilities and household chores.

According to National Family Health Survey (NFHS-3), over half of Indian women were married before reaching the legal minimum age of 18 years. Early marriage is always linked to lack of education among girls as they are not able to acquire the understanding and skills needed to handle marital lives. A person well conversed with realities of life that may be garnered through education or other sources is better equipped to handle stress both mentally and physically.

It is extremely pivotal for the woman in marriage to be developed intellectually and physically. She can then decide what is right and wrong for her family; nourish her children better; impart qualities needed to live a good life; be a robust emotional support and even financial if needed. Only a learned woman can make the marriage successful away from male dominance and patriarchal pressures.

Love is in the air!

Mere sapno ki rani kab ayegi tu ……!!Exactly this is the song, which every bachelor can be seen singing today. Love is in the air and so are the marriages. Marriage is the ultimate stamp, which gives certification to the love and the bond shared between couples. It has become so much important these days, to know a person before marrying him. We just cannot risk our entire lives, with a person, whom we do not even know. Understanding and compatibility being the prime reasons and many more has given rise to the sudden increase in the number of love marriages happening in the country these days.

But to love, you need to find some one, who is compatible, understanding, caring, loving, charming and much more. And same are the traits required to marry some one and to be able to spend your entire life with the same person. Its not that we will search and we will find, whom we can love or not, it’s something, which just happens. Its very well known and rightly said, love is blind; we tend to see only the positives, when we start liking someone. But a number of factors are required to be kept in mind, because he/ she is going to be your future husband or wife. You are not looking at his negatives now, but don’t let the situation turn so bad that after marriage, you get to see only negatives in him. Don’t let your self fall into the pit; remember that you are choosing a person for your whole life.

I known love relations cannot be formed in the basis of calculations, but you really need to be cautious, in choosing your life partner. Because, as in earlier days, you used to evaluate a person in just five minutes before marriage, same is the case here, with the big difference, that the time provided is unlimited. So give all the time available in the world and then make your marriage as the best decision of your life.

Till then enjoy the rainy season with your loved ones!

Misunderstandings can lead to blunders

Relations are very precious; they need special care and attention. You need to be extra careful, when it comes to taking care of a relation. Whether it’s any relation, friendship, siblings, or marriage, every relation needs a proper nourishment to keep growing. There are many things which are needed to be kept in mind, to make a relation strong and reach a stage, where nothing can even touch the integrity of the bond. Especially, in case of the marriages, the couple needs to give extra attention to keep the relation going. The bond of marriage is very delicate; therefore support from both the sides, i.e. bride and groom both should work as the two ends of that wire, which if broken, from any either ends, will lead to stoppage of the flow of current, corresponding to the breakage of the relation.

There are tiffs, misunderstandings and fights, in every relation, but you need to make your relation, reach a stage, where no such things can act as a hurdle in the growth of your relation. The bride and groom are entirely responsible for the bonding they share. If you have great understanding with your partner, then no outsider can have the courage to spoil your relation. It’s only who are accountable for any problems in your relation and on the other hand also, it can be you only, because of whom you and your life partner will lead a happy married life.

According to me problems, whether, big or small, must be discussed with your partner. What’s the use of lingering it on, and on the other side keeping your partner guessing things? This increases the irritation level. Also, marriage is a very pure bond, so everything should be clear and transparent between the husband and wife. This not only adds to the life of your marriage bond, but also makes your life synchronize to happiness and satisfaction