Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Talk Before You Walk Out !

Doubting - The Dangerous Bug
It is a popular saying; it takes ages to build a relation, whereas it is a matter of few minutes to break it. Relationships are very delicate; they need to be nurtured with utmost care and importance. Especially, marriage is the purest and the most sacred bond, which we form in our life. Therefore, best of the efforts need to be made to make the marriage bond stronger and unbreakable. There are a number of situations, where you feel insecure about your marriage bond and are suspicious about its firmness. In such situations, you must talk directly to your life partner and make every doubt clear. Running away from the situation and whiling away time, does not help. It only adds tension and confusion to the situation and the relation.

The simplest of the solutions to any problem is to talk about it. Dragging the matter and thinking over it too much, won’t help, unless you discuss the same with your life partner. He might even do not have a hint about what has been going in your mind and reason behind your indifferent behaviour. Therefore, going to him and talking clearly about every situation or problem, would help you best to get over it.

Doubting are said to be the most dangerous bug, which can spoil your relation from the core. On the contrary, you should approach your life partner with all the confidence and simply solve the matter. Ignoring him or just being rude, would only add complications to your marriage. Therefore, by being soft and humble you should communicate your problems to your partner. Also, it should not be done in a way that he feels offended, because at the end if he is not wrong, then it can add a void to your relation.

1 comment:

  1. Quite true; every problem can be solved once both the sides get to talking.

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